How Could I Possibly Be Inconspicuous

When I was younger, I used to go to the mall a lot. I grew up in a town where most people were the paycheck to paycheck type, and where tax season was huge. You always knew who had gotten their tax returns back because the kids would have brand new shoes and be talking about a new tv or something. But the one thing that every family did, regardless of financial status, was go to the mall. Especially on weekends. The mall was beautiful at that time. It had good restaurants and live shows or bands would perform. Lots of good stores to window shop at, too, if you couldn’t afford to buy anything. Sometimes my parents would drive us out to another town to go to the mall there. Mall culture was huge and it was amazing.

But most of the malls here started dying off in the mid-2000s. The one closest to where I grew up is a shadow of its former self. I don’t know if I would go even if it weren’t, though. I love my online shopping, and I love not having to be around people much. But I’ll tell you this much. If Tiktok had been around when I was a teen, I would have been THAT girl making videos in the middle of the mall.

In This Post:
Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: LaraX Petite by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Face Skin: Bliss by Glam Affair
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Highlight Corrector
* Nose Fix
* Eyelid Changer Small Crease
* Eyebrows (Straight)
* Heart Mole
* Lips Concealer
* Chin Dimple
* Under Eye Lashes Concealer
* Everyday Blush
* Closed Eyes
Highlight: Glow Babez (1) by Tres Beau
Hair & Hat: Amethyst by Beusy
(Bangs from the Lychee hair by Wasabi)
Top: Squish jacket/undershirt by Neve [Fameshed]
Bottom: Weekend Jeans by Friday
Necklace: Fleur’s Necklace by Kibitz
Earrings: Isobel’s Earrings by Kibitz
Rings: Davina’s Rings by Kibitz
Tattoo: Nivile by Vegas Tattoo
Pose & Prop: Selfie Vol.3 by Foxcity
Background: Mall Paradise by The Bearded Guy

I Keep Asking Why

In grief therapy, they tell you often that being creative and expressing your feelings through art is huge. Something about art therapy helping get your emotions out without you having to speak. I guess I sort of get it. There have been a million times in this very blog where my photos aren’t just “Hi, look at my outfit.” I’m not sure I’ve ever really been that kind of blogger. I like to tell a simple story in a simple picture. But I’ve been so creatively blocked in the past almost 3 months. It’s so hard to express yourself through art when your grief is almost the only thing you feel most days.

But then I thought, “Why do I have to be creative? Why can’t I just put out what I feel or even what my days are like?”

I have 3 kittens. They’re almost 6 months old now and I love them so much. They are, most days, the only things that really get me out of bed. They are curious and funny and they force me to remember that life goes on, even on your worst days.

In This Post:

Head: Nova by LeLutka
Body: Lara by Maitreya
Skin: Rosalie by Glam Affair
Hair: Ava by Doux
Headband: Josie by Frayed [Anthem]
Top: Nimi by Miss Chelsea [N21]
Jeans: Evie by Blueberry
Boots: Sidney Booties by Friday [Collabor88]
Nails: Frankie by Equal [Anthem]
Pose: Ground Sits Vol. 1 by Foxcity [Edited with AnyPose]

Bed: Elle by Elm
Fairy Cottage – Sideboard by KraftWork
Old Sports Room – Vintage Messy Rug by KraftWork [Anthem]
Munchkin Kittens by JIAN

She Just Wanna Pop, Pop, Pop!

Happy Saturday, beautiful ones! It’s the weekend and anything could happen! I don’t know about you guys, but I just feel like keeping it simple, having fun, and shopping! If you haven’t been out to The Epiphany yet, you need to goooo! I cannot stress this enough! Maybe I’ll see you there!

In This Post:

Head: Aida by LeLutka
Body: Lara by Maitreya
Skin: Gaia by Glam Affair
Hair: Oasis by Truth
Jacket, Top, Skirt – Sweetheart by Sakura [The Epiphany]
Shoes and Socks – Cindy Janes by Friday [The Epiphany]
Sunglasses by Mon Tissu (Free Gift) [FaMESHed]
Pose: Betty by Kirin

Buy Her Tonight, She’s Still Shining

Hello, beautiful ones! I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend. I don’t really have much to say today. There are some events happening and new things on Netflix and the weather is great. So there are lots of things for you to do! Happy April!

In This Post:

Head: Aida by LeLutka
Body: Lara by Maitreya
Skin: Gaia by Glam Affair
Lips: Red Lipstick by Izzie’s
Hair: Tara by Exile [Cosmopolitan]
Top: Birdie by Neve [FaMESHed]
Skirt: Fairway by Neve [FaMESHed]
Shoes: Ronnie by Friday [Uber]
Pose: Lounge by Foxcity
Photoset: Lucky Lounge by Foxcity

And We Can Close Our Eyes

Hello, beautiful ones! So I was in the process of editing this photo when I got the terrible news that Luke Perry had passed away. Oh gosh, my heart is just crushed. He was probably my biggest celebrity crush as a young teen. Yes, we know him mostly from 90210 fame, but he was also Pike (yes, Pike, not Spike) in the movie version of Buffy The Vampire Slayer. If you never saw that movie, you truly must. It is campy and silly, but so enjoyable! There is one part where Pike, who had been scruffy and sloppy, comes into a dance and he’s clean shaven and beautiful. It’s just about my favorite part. That’s how I’ll remember him.

I think a little retail therapy is in order for today, and maybe you agree with me, so head on out to Uber and get something special.

In This Post:

Head: Aida by LeLutka
Body: Lara by Maitreya
Skin: Gaia by Glam Affair
Hair: Alinna by Sintiklia [The Arcade]
Jacket and Dress: Vanya by Seniha [Uber]
Shoes: Elenoir Flats by Friday [Uber]
Pose and prop: Juice by Foxcity [Uber]

Je Vois La Vie En Rose

Happy Monday, beautiful ones! I hope you all had a lovely weekend. Valentine’s Day is coming up in 10 days! I’m not really much into the whole thing, but I do so love all the pink and flowers and hearts that come along with it. Maybe because all of it reminds me more of spring than anything else, and I am very ready for spring!

There are a ton of shopping events happening right now, so get to it! Go shop!

(Btw, the marks on my hair are not actually on the hair. I didn’t notice until the photo was finished that my shadows made weird marks.)

In This Post:

Head: Aida by LeLutka
Body: Lara by Maitreya
Skin: Gaia by Glam Affair
Hair: Thank U by Ade [The Liaison Collaborative]
Top: Skip by Neve [FaMESHed]
Skirt: Hop by Neve [FaMESHed]
Boots: Lennon by Friday [Uber]
Necklace: Kenzie by Cae [Uber]
Rings: Preziosa by RealEvil Industries [The Epiphany]
Pose made by me with AnyPose
Rose Vase Decor by What Next
Building: Soho Build by Minimal

L’amour Toujours

Happy Monday, beautiful ones! I have to admit, I’m not much of a morning person. It’s always been said that if you really want to know my opinion of something, ask me early in the morning, because I’m not likely to hold back! But I will say that I am much more productive if I wake up early. I might be mad about it, but I get things done!

And one thing I’ve definitely done today is check out Collabor88 before it closes for the January round. You all should go, too! Then be sure you head to The Epiphany for more goodies there!

(Btw, this is my guy alt I’m using for this photo, so I’m not going to bother with credits for him because his stuff is so old, it’s shameful!)

In This Post:

Body: Lara by Maitreya
Skin by Glam Affair
Outfit: Basic Cardigan, Tattoo Body Blusher – Noel by 89Hz [The Epiphany]
Socks: Launa by Friday [Collabor88]
Bed: Varma by Cheeky Pea
Pose made by me with AnyPose

Lookin’ For Fun and Feelin’ Groovy!

I finally got into Uber! Woo! The Bohemian theme made me soooo happy!

I love the Ripped Denim Shorts from Blueberry! They have belted and non-belted options. And the Bohemian top from Pixicat is just adorable! I also fell right in love with the Boho Bags from Reign for Uber. You can change the color of the metal coins, too!

And no boho babe is complete without a great pair of boots to kick around in! The Layla boots from Fri.day for Uber are perfect! You can’t tell in the pic, but they dip down in the back in a v cut. The boots are unrigged, too, so you can mod them to be bigger or smaller if you need to.

Happy shopping, bohemians!

In This Post:

Skin: Harley by Pink Fuel
Hair: Elyse by Truth
Body: Physique by Slink
Mesh hands by Slink
Top: Bohemian by Pixicat [Uber]
Shorts: Cossy Ripped Denim by Blueberry [Uber]
Boots: Layla by fri.day [Uber]
Boho Bag by Reign [Uber]
Necklace & Earrings: Ethereal by Cae [Seraphim Social]
Pose: Bag Lady II by aDORKable Poses [Adjusted by me with Avimote]

You Can See The World You Brought To Life

If it hasn’t been obvious by what I blog, I enjoy being comfortable. Sure, fancy dresses and corsets and heels are gorgeous but my style definitely leans towards comfort!

Coldlogic released some great new tops and pants! I’m wearing the top from the Connor outfit with a pair of the Jennings jeans from their Pants 151 collection. The Connor outfit does include pants along with the top. I love the little half tuck in the front because it’s just cute and casual!

If you have a comfy outfit, you need some comfy shoes, and the new Darcy flats from Fri.day that are out at Kustom9 fit the bill! They’re a great little t-strap mary jane style flat and look like the type of shoe you can just run around all day in!

Happy shopping!

In This Post:

Skin: Harley by Pink Fuel
Hair: Dulce by Truth
Body: Physique by Slink [Get the update!]
Hands and feet by Slink [Get the update!]
Top: Connor by coldLogic
Pants: Jennings by coldLogic
Shoes: Darcy by fri.day [Kustom9]
Pose: Mochi by Kirin
Sandbridge Ice Cream Cart by What Next

A Walk In The Park

Are you ready for spring? I know I sure am! Sunny days and everything waking up from their winter sleep? Sooo ready for it!

Collabor88 is open and I just fell hard for the Wallflower dress from Foxes! It’s just super adorable and you have the option of wearing it with or without the little cardigan.

Fri.day is also at Collabor88 with the new Marsali flats. They are the perfect little spring flat. Simple, but the ankle strap gives them a little extra touch of cute!

Happy shopping!

In This Post:

Skin: Katya by Glam Affair
Hair: Sally by Truth [New!]
Body: Lara by Maitreya
Hands and Feet by Slink
Tattoo: Butterflies Lilies by Letis
Dress: Wallflower by Foxes [Collabor88]
Shoes: Marsali.Flats by fri.day [Collabor88]
Glasses: Tegan by Noodles
Ring: Belle by Cae [Enchantment]
Pose: Stands 470-474 by !bang [The Thrift Shop] [Kind of modified by the coffee cup in my hand!]