I Make The Rules Up As I Go

I think of myself as being pretty boring most of the time. I think that surprises some people, given how cheerful and chatty I am when I’m streaming or even sometimes just on social media. But one on one? I tend to be more quiet. And that’s not a terribly bad thing, I don’t think. It means I’m comfortable enough to not feel the need to be entertaining all of the time. I don’t think a lot of people realize what a gift that is, to be someone who makes a high anxiety person feel comfortable enough to just drop the mask and chill.

Of course, then sometimes I bust out with the crazy. You never know what you’re going to get with me.

In This Post:
Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: LaraX Petite by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Face Skin: Mona by DeeTaleZ
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Highlight Corrector
* Nose Fix
* Under Eye Lashes Concealer
* Heart Mole
* Cheeks Contour
* Lips Concealer
* Chin Dimple
* Everyday Blush
Highlight: Glow Babez (1) by Tres Beau
Lipstick: Sabrina by Amara Beauty
Tattoo: Gratitude by Vegas Tattoo
Hair: Tranquil by Truth x Faga
Dress: Clairvoyant by Neve [Fameshed]
Shoes: Bella by N-Core
Purse: Lush by Movement
Coffee To Go by Hive
Pose: Juice by Foxcity
Backdrop: Coffee Shop by Tropix

On This Perfect Day

I love the weekend in SL. Not for just the billion amazing sales, but the whole vibe is different. Maybe that’s just me thinking that. But I have noticed that people talk a little more on the weekends. Like I was out shopping, and a woman messaged me to tell me she liked my eyes, and then told me I look sweet. I thought it was really nice!! Especially since I have literally not changed my outfit in days. No one on Thursday told me I looked sweet. Weekend vibes!

In This Post:
Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: LaraX Petite by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Face Skin: Mona by DeeTaleZ
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Highlight Corrector
* Nose Fix
* Under Eye Lashes Concealer
* Heart Mole
* Lips Concealer
* Chin Dimple
* Everyday Blush
Highlight: Glow Babez (1) by Tres Beau
Lipstick: Bloom by Identity Faces [Anthology]
Tattoo: Gratitude by Vegas Tattoo
Hair: Nikkie by Rama Salon
Shirt: Plash Top by Neve [Fameshed]
Romper: Puddle Romper by Neve [Fameshed]
Necklace: Debra’s Necklace by Kibitz
Earrings: Vanity by PKC
Purse: Fancy Summer Handbag by Movement
(Glasses are Lizz by Noodles, but not available any longer)
Pose: Trendy by Foxcity

How Could I Possibly Be Inconspicuous

When I was younger, I used to go to the mall a lot. I grew up in a town where most people were the paycheck to paycheck type, and where tax season was huge. You always knew who had gotten their tax returns back because the kids would have brand new shoes and be talking about a new tv or something. But the one thing that every family did, regardless of financial status, was go to the mall. Especially on weekends. The mall was beautiful at that time. It had good restaurants and live shows or bands would perform. Lots of good stores to window shop at, too, if you couldn’t afford to buy anything. Sometimes my parents would drive us out to another town to go to the mall there. Mall culture was huge and it was amazing.

But most of the malls here started dying off in the mid-2000s. The one closest to where I grew up is a shadow of its former self. I don’t know if I would go even if it weren’t, though. I love my online shopping, and I love not having to be around people much. But I’ll tell you this much. If Tiktok had been around when I was a teen, I would have been THAT girl making videos in the middle of the mall.

In This Post:
Head: Avalon by Lelutka
Body: LaraX Petite by Maitreya
Body Skin: Picasso Babe Slim by Velour
Face Skin: Bliss by Glam Affair
Face Layers by Izzie’s:
* Highlight Corrector
* Nose Fix
* Eyelid Changer Small Crease
* Eyebrows (Straight)
* Heart Mole
* Lips Concealer
* Chin Dimple
* Under Eye Lashes Concealer
* Everyday Blush
* Closed Eyes
Highlight: Glow Babez (1) by Tres Beau
Hair & Hat: Amethyst by Beusy
(Bangs from the Lychee hair by Wasabi)
Top: Squish jacket/undershirt by Neve [Fameshed]
Bottom: Weekend Jeans by Friday
Necklace: Fleur’s Necklace by Kibitz
Earrings: Isobel’s Earrings by Kibitz
Rings: Davina’s Rings by Kibitz
Tattoo: Nivile by Vegas Tattoo
Pose & Prop: Selfie Vol.3 by Foxcity
Background: Mall Paradise by The Bearded Guy

Coming Out Of The Dark

Hello, loves. Well. This was a mess of a month. *laughs* Of course, I have never been one for Novembers, which those of you who have read my blog for a long time know all too well. But this November? Yikes. But unlike past Novembers, I took time to really work on myself and, more importantly, just rest. I usually try pushing through everything I’m going through, and I’ve learned that maybe that’s not always the best option. Sometimes you just need to step back, step away from everyone, and retreat into your own tiny bubble while you rest and think and just take care of yourself. I did exactly that, and I feel like I’m better for it. It’s like waking up. It’s like taking a huge breath after holding it for so long. It’s like coming out of the dark. Am I “all better?” No. Of course not. But today? Today feels good. I hope you are all taking care of yourselves, too.

In This Post:

Head: Nova by LeLutka
Body: Lara with Petite add-on by Maitreya
Skin: Rosalie by Glam Affair
Hair: Serenity by Truth
Top: Tick by Neve [FaMESHed, December]
Skirt: Tock by Neve [FaMESHed, December]
Sheer Tights by Izzie’s
Pose: Celestial by Foxcity
Photo Booth: Neighbourhood by Foxcity

I Am Unwritten

Hello, loves! Happy new year! Are you ready for a new year of lovely things and shopping and photos and fun? Me too!

The Liaison Collaborative has opened for a brand new round and it’s a good one! It is designer’s choice this month, so there is much to see.

Also, if you are not part of the Anxiety group, you should get in! They have a big box FULL of backdrops and skyboxes for only 77L!! They are their older work but as you can see with this backdrop I’m using, they are still super awesome! I know for me, stores that create backdrops and photo sets always have my heart because they make creating blog photos soooo much easier! The group is 77L to join, but super super worth it!

I hope you are all having a great start to your week!

In This Post:

Head: Aida by LeLutka
Body: Lara by Maitreya
Skin: Gaia by Glam Affair
Hair: Eternity by Truth
Top: Rabble by Neve [FaMESHed]
Leggings: Chaos by Neve [FaMESHed]
Pose and props: Writer’s Block by Le Poppycock The Liaison Collaborative
Backdrop: Home by Anxiety [Goodbye Neon Box, 77L]

Seasons Change

Hello, beautiful people! You know, I never really was much for social media. Oh, sure. I had some. In fact, I’ve probably reserved my name on EVERY social media outlet out there! But using them? Ehhhh…. not really interested in 99% of them. But ever since I started this whole Twitch thing, I’ve had to get better at actually being active on places. Networking is still kind of a struggle for me, if I’m being perfectly honest. I guess it’s my huge shyness combined with my introvert nature, sprinkled with a big heaping helping of anxiety. It’s not easy! 🙂 But I’m getting better. People do change, I guess. Or at least, they fake it until they make it. It does mean I spend an awful lot of time attached to my phone these days, but I guess most people do now.

I hope everyone has had a magnificent fall so far! I’m totally getting the urge to do some spooky pictures, so those definitely will be coming up soon!




In This Post:

Head: Aida by LeLutka
Body: Lara by Maitreya
Skin: Gaia by Glam Affair
Nails: Halloween Nails by Nylon Outfitters [Collabor88]
Hair: Julianne by Exile [Collabor88]
Top: Putt by Neve [FaMESHed]
Pose and Prop: Sleepy by Foxcity [Collabor88]

Don’t Be So Hard On Yourself

Hello, beautiful ones! I hope everyone has had a most wonderful start to their September! Do you go by official starts to seasons? I almost never do. September means fall to me! And since fall has started, I’m getting the itch to get a new house! I don’t know why I go through this so often! But I just want something smaller and cozier than what we currently have. Do you know of any new homes out there that I might like? I’m looking for at least 2 bedrooms, and yes, I need a bathroom. I know, I know. Some people think it’s silly but I just like my houses to have a bit more realism to them. If you know of any new beautiful homes out there, let me know!

In This Post:

Head: Aida by LeLutka
Body: Lara by Maitreya
Skin: Gaia by Glam Affair
Hair: Lily by Exile
Top: Insurgent by Neve [Uber]
Jeans: Elias by Blueberry
Boots: Elias Combat (ankle high) by Blueberry
Pose made by me with Anypose
Decor: Moving Day by Second Spaces [The Arcade]
House: Araby by Barnesworth Anubis

Buy Her Tonight, She’s Still Shining

Hello, beautiful ones! I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend. I don’t really have much to say today. There are some events happening and new things on Netflix and the weather is great. So there are lots of things for you to do! Happy April!

In This Post:

Head: Aida by LeLutka
Body: Lara by Maitreya
Skin: Gaia by Glam Affair
Lips: Red Lipstick by Izzie’s
Hair: Tara by Exile [Cosmopolitan]
Top: Birdie by Neve [FaMESHed]
Skirt: Fairway by Neve [FaMESHed]
Shoes: Ronnie by Friday [Uber]
Pose: Lounge by Foxcity
Photoset: Lucky Lounge by Foxcity

Groovy Little Summer Song

Happy Monday, beautiful ones! Our weather here lately has been pretty up and down. It was just warm enough yesterday to make me start thinking about summer! There is just something about being out enjoying the sun all day, then winding down with a nice fruity drink as the sun sets. I really can’t wait for those days again!

In This Post:

Head: Aida by LeLutka
Body: Lara by Maitreya
Skin: Gaia by Glam Affair
Hair: Dangerous by Ade
Dress: Stark by Neve [Tres Chic]
Choker and Necklace: Spring by Nanika [The Liaison Collaborative]
Glasses: Angular by Fetch [Bloom]
Drink: Cocomilk by ChicChica
Pose and prop: Sitting Pretty by Le Poppycock

Nothing Wrong With Saying I Need Me Time

Hello, beautiful people! I hope everyone had a really wonderful weekend and that you were all able to do something lovely for yourselves. As an introvert, I need alone time like I need a heartbeat. Lately, I’ve been taking the weekends to just do my own thing. It’s been really nice. The term “introvert” wasn’t something I had heard of until I was an adult. I spent most of my life thinking I was just shy or just strange because being around people often tired me out. I am extremely shy, but that is not being an introvert. I just need “me time” so I can be around for people later. And I don’t see one single thing wrong with that.

Uber opened up today, and you simply HAVE to go! There are so many things that I know you will need for your life!

In This Post:

Head: Aida by LeLutka
Body: Lara by Maitreya
Skin: Gaia by Glam Affair
Hair: Zahlee by Truth [Uber]
Dress: Flouncy by Neve [Uber]
Necklace and Bracelet: Dottie by Earthstones [Uber]
Pose and Prop: Juice by Foxcity [Uber]